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Thursday, 12 March 2015

Habits of Super-Happy Couples.






1. Share a Ritual

Couples should make time to create consistent habit or a ritual consistently. For example, a couple might decide to go jogging every Saturday morning. This ritual would create time for the couple to catch up on their week.

 

 2. Dole Out Compliments

Most couples forget to compliment each other especially after they get married. Complementing your spouse is a great way to show that you still appreciate them and love them.


3 .Hold On 
Couples should make out some intimate and sweet time together.For example, take five minutes each morning and each night to simply hold each other. This is a wonderful way to start and end your day. Though you may give a hug before leaving for work or hug your partner before falling asleep, this is a focused moment to consciously share with your partner. This also creates time for couples to communicate.

4. Kiss Goodbye
Couples should make it a priority to kiss/say goodbye. Most times, they leave in a rush, without telling their spouse goodbye. Kissing/saying goodbye should be a consistent thing among couples.

5. Have Pillow Talk
Most times, after a hard day's work, couples go home looking forward to having a good night sleep.Thus leaving no time to discuss, or catch up on the day with their spouse.Couples should try and talk every night, about the day at work, their concerns, their future, and pretty much anything else they want to get off their chests. It is our special moment where they spend quality time with each other and are most relaxed."


6. Say 'Thanks'
Couples should never forget how to tell their spouse "thank you". It makes their spouse feel appreciated and eager to do other things for them. Without ever realising it, gratitude plays a big part in the happiness of every union. Couples should express sincere gratitude for everything. Couples who express their gratitude to each other, find out that their time is always filled with passion and magic.

7. Spoil Each Other
Couples should take time out to spoil each other. They should plan on giving each other a treat. This way, the relationship becomes sweeter and full of surprises.Spoiling each other, leaves no room for slights ('He didn't take out the garbage, so I'm not going to do the dishes!'). Couples who spoil each other, compete to see who can be nicer.


8. Be Happy to See Each Other
Lighting up when your partner walks in the room will send positive reverberations through your relationship no matter how long you've been together. Be happy to see you partner, whether it is first thing in the morning or when you walk through the door in the evening. Too many couples let the day wear them down and then 'dump' on their partner as soon as they see them. Your spouse is not your emotional garbage can. This might feel artificial at first, but try it. It will be infectious and will change the dynamic or your relationship.


9. Walk This Way
Couples who create time for a walk with each other, find out that they always have a good time. For the couple, the walk is great because they are away from their phones, computers, and work distractions, and we can talk openly about their day, their thoughts, their frustrations. Sometimes they can just admire the sky together. The focused time together helps them reduce misunderstandings and stress.


10. Text Sweet Nothings
Couples should  know little things they can do that their partners would like, so couples can engage in any of these small behaviors to influence the environment in a relationship. A couple can make a list of small things your spouse would like and do those, so you aren't keeping score all the time. Small gestures, big rewards.

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